Alice Crawley changed her life. Here’s how. (Images: Getty).

Read part two to find out how Alice Crawley forgave her debt and tripled her salary to $ 150,000.

One morning in 2004, Alice Crawley found herself sitting on Coogee Beach in Sydney, contemplating her situation.

His phone history reportedly showed calls from Interpol and creditors in Australia and Canada, while his bank balance reportedly showed smelly credit card debt of $ 185,000.

Physically, she was battling a horrible drug-fueled hangover, and mentally, she was in an elevator that was only going down.

Jaz’s story:

As often happens, outwardly, his life was good. She had expensive clothes, lavish vacations, and extravagant spa treatments.

But, sitting on this beach, Crawley realized something: enough was enough, and she needed help.

Hello sir actuary

Alice Crawley in black and white photo smiling at the camera.

Alice Crawley is now a successful transformation coach. (Image: supplied).

Seventeen years later, the author, Speaker and Transformation Leader Crawley is at the peak of her career, happily married, debt free and perfectly clean.

This she attributes to two things.

The first, herself. Getting rid of so much debt and erasing self-destructive behaviors takes a tremendous amount of personal work.

Sam’s story:

The second, a six-foot-six actuary she met over a few drinks at Ryan’s Bar in Sydney one afternoon in the early 2000s.

“[Martin] was hard to miss, ”Crawley said Yahoo finances.

“We started chatting and we had this great conversation. I found him absolutely fascinating and loved that he had this great sense of humor.

That’s what caught his attention – an actuary with a sense of humor. She was amazed at her perception of “death by a million spreadsheets”.

It didn’t take long for her to fall in love with this tall and funny musical actuary. Ultimately, this man who would become her husband is the person she credits with saving her life.

Mr. Actuary – as she calls him – saw her, and he didn’t turn away. She had expected him to clean up his finances for her, but the opposite happened.

Briony’s story:

When he understood the depth of his financial stress, his words weren’t heartwarming but truthful, Crawley said.

“I won’t go that low,” he told her. “So you have to come and meet me here. And I’m going to take the trip with you, but I’m not going to get you out of the woods.

As Crawley said, he expected more from her than she expected from herself, and that was what he needed to get the help she needed.

“He was of integrity with a capital ‘I’.”

He was incapable of being manipulated or fooled. He saw it all, so Crawley went to rehab.

“You will be dead in six months”

Crawley went to rehab twice to quit drugs and quit drinking.

She had overdosed all over the world and had almost died more than once. The point was, she said, that she came from “a long line of seasoned and fully functioning alcoholics.”

She was taking speed, sleeping pills, tranquilizers, and polishing a bottle of valium within a week. It was a habit of $ 10,000 a month.

She told her story to the admitting doctor with ease – the product of “Tons of Therapy”.

Cathy’s story:

The doctor took off his glasses and looked her in the eye, Crawley recalls.

“You realize you have a serious problem, don’t you?” He asked.

“Talk about a really good game, Alice. But I’m sorry, I need to get your attention: the concoction you’re on? You’re gonna be dead in six months.

It was the start of a major change of mind for Crawley. Through rehabilitation and therapy, she came to realize that she self-treated with bipolar and ADHD through drugs and alcohol, and when that didn’t work, she turned to compulsive spending. .

At the heart of it all was a fundamental lack of self-esteem, she added, and that was the biggest problem she had to solve.

“In the end, this trip to rehab [was where] I started to really get a feel for the depth of the dependencies. It wasn’t a superficial issue at all, it was how I felt about myself and the pain and trauma from the past, ”she said.

“There was a lot of healing that had to happen. “

Crawley was released from rehab, but there was still hundreds of thousands of dollars of work to do.

Read part two to find out how Alice Crawley forgave her debt and tripled her salary to $ 150,000.

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